2026-03-04 22:15 UTC
@BeAware hang in there
grief is hard and dealing with an estate etc is a pain (sadly have had some experience) - I'd suggest making yourself a list of the stuff that has to happen, the stuff that should happen, and the stuff that can wait. (get thru the stuff that has to happen like getting copies (more than you think you will need) of the official death certificate, of his will etc. You'll need that many times when dealing with folks like banks etc
If you can get help from a lawyer/accountant
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@Rycaut@mastodon.social 2026-03-04 22:20
@BeAware and do give yourself time to grieve - and at least my personal experience is that it comes in waves - even over a decade later I still find myself missing my dad when something reminds me of him That's normal. And unless you have to deal with something immediately (like stopping services/bills etc) it's ok to do stuff like put photos or whatever in a big box and deal with them later. Take care of yourself most things estate related can wait once you get past the immediate stuff