Acey(She)/Ace(He)🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍

Annoyed at the fact that so many people ask "what do you do for work?" not as a question to genuinely get to know a person, but as a way to decide how much worth to assign to that person and respect to show them, based on what they answer. People are more than what their job is, or whether or not they have a traditional 9-5, or whether they even have a job at all. Stop it. #respect #peoplearemorethantheirjob #YouAreEnough #youareworthit #youareworthy #disabledrights

RE: https://zeroes.ca/@broadwaybabyto/117341339802848189 Your reminder that if you're able to mask, please do.

URGENT! PLEASE BOOST FOR ME. Fedi friends, I'm unexpectedly stuck. I've just had the horrible realisation that my bank is overdrawn because they didn't take money for bills out until later than normal😢As a disabled person under the poverty line, this not only now leaves me stuck to pay my utility bill, but also means the bank will charge me a fee for being overdrawn. As you can imagine, this is an extremely precarious and stressful position for me. If you could help me cover the overdraft and upcoming fees as well as the upcoming utilities bill due tomorrow, it would be so very much appreciated and I'd be very grateful(I'm okay for food at the moment). My goal to cover the utility bill, overdraft and fees amd get back to zero is $231.21. Thank you so much💖 #trans #boostforreach #MutualAidRequest #mutualaidspace #requeat #help #stuck #aid #poverty #disabled #disabledmutualaid #transgrnder #bisexual #lgbtqiaplus #witch #femme #spiritual #cjronicillness #chronicallyill #kindness #hope #gratitude #tryingmybest #disabilitycommunity #ptsd #neurodivergent #plural #positivity #anxiety #keepgoing #boostforhelp @mutualaid@fedigroups.social #mutual #fediverse #creative #disabilityrights #chronicfatigue #spoonie @mutualaidspace@mutualaidspace.org #transcrowdfunding #transcrowdfundhttps://ko-fi.com/aces_funhouse

Hi! It's me, Acey!(she/her) Well, here it is, fedi friends.. the first pic of me as my femme self after discovering that I'm bigender, and also a woman. I'm not sure I'll stay blonde, but I'm excited about experimenting with different things. The gender euphoria of being able to be my girl self is incredible, and I'm excited about the future😁 (And yes, I'm also still a proud trans man...just really enjoying finally embracing the femme aspects of being bigender currently). Life at 46 is turning out pretty good I think😉💖 #bigender #woman #femme #sexygirl #trans #gendereuphoria

Three good things today: Finally feeling like I've turned a corner after my recent surgeries, complications, fibro flare, and split from my system-mate husband. Still only have a couple of hours of energy before I need a rest and usually a nap, but I'm in less pain regarding kidneys, bladder and urethra, and that's big progress that I'm very grateful for! Managed to get the house vacuumed and washing done, so I feel like I'm managing a little better with the basic day to day stuff today. Discovering my girl/femme self more after working out I'm bigender. I'm loving the process of learning what it means to me to be a girl, what that feels like, how I want to express that etc. #ThreeGoodThings #3GoodThingsToday #joy #genderaffirmation #bigender #gendereuphoria #happiness #resilientasfuck #resileince #trans #littlejoys #grateful #girlpower

URGENT. PLEASE BOOST FOR ME! As many of you know I'm recovering from recent surgeries and complications, and and also still dealing with after effects of three day migraine and a fibro flare. I'm unable to cook for myself currently, and have run out of easy meals to keep me going. As a disabled, chronically ill person who lives under the poverty line it would be much appreciated if you could help me reach my $80 goal so I can get a few more nutritious meals for the next few days as I continue my recovery(this goal will get me two meals a day for 6 days). Thank you so much. I appreciate you all♥️ #mutualaid #boostforreach #boostforreach #kindness #love #disabledmutualaid #disabled #disability #bigender #chronicillness #mutualaidspace #mutual #help #assist #leadiwthlove #kindnessmatters #lgbtqia #lgbtqiaplus #bisexual #spiritual #grateful #gratitude #littlejoys #MutualAidSavesLives #communitymatters #community #food #aid #transcrowdfund @mutualaidspace@mutualaidspace.org @mutualaid@fedigroups.social #appreciation #thanks #youreamazing #amazing #fedi #fedifriends #fediversehttps://ko-fi.com/aces_funhouse

A gentle reminder: "witch" is a gender neutral term. There are witches who are not women♥️ #witch #witchcraft

Today I took a more femme bag out with me when I went to run errands. It's not super femme, and can be worn as crossbody or over-shoulder or carried as a handbag. I needed something that I could make work with my usual masc style(although I'm slowly adding some more femme aspects to that too), and really wanted to attempt the "handbag" thing instead of carrying my wallet in my pants as I usually do as my guy self. I also wore some mascara. It was a success. Hooray for gender euphoria! I'm loving being bigender, and really enjoying being my woman/femme self right now. Life is short, and at 46 and with dodgy health and disability, I don't have time to waste. I deserve full happiness and joy, and I'm grabbing hold of it all with both hands🥹💖 #woman #femme #bigender #trans #joy #livelifetothefullest #gendereuphoria

Holy shit my patience has been worn completely thin today by people.

Out of surgery and back on the ward. Longer, multi-faceted operation, but it was a success. Tired but relieved. Will update further when I'm less groggy😂

Three good things today: The start of a new week, and this time stent free! A new chapter beginning as another chapter ends in my personal life. Another day I get to be my girl self. Hooray! #ThreeGoodThings #3GoodThingsToday #grateful

I managed to run errands. Exhausted now, but home again. Here, have some blue Aussie sky and a beautiful big tree. #treesofmastodon #trees #naturephotography #sky #australia

A little splash of orange for you #orange #flowers #nature #Bloomscrolling

For those of you following along at home-it's surgery day! I'm up and getting ready to get to the hospital. Prayers, good vibes, positive thoughts, spells etc please, as I'm going into this surgery already knowing there are complications, and after the last surgery was unsuccessful. I really need a good outcome this time😂 Wish me luck!

#adhd #neurodivergent #autism #audhd

I'm having a fantastically girly day, pottering about gently after my medical appointments, and feeling grateful that I discovered I'm bigender and get to experience all of this now. For me, realising that I'm also a woman has felt like when I came out as a trans man in some ways-and it currently feels very much like another transition, in a sense. Because I'm also plural, there's been additional nuance and complexity around my discovery that I'm bigender, and that's okay too. I love being a trans man, and I love being a woman💖🥰 #bigender #trans #gendereuphoria #joy #happiness #hope

RE: https://lgbtqia.space/@aceofcosmicspace/117388322996515225 PLEASE BOOST. Okay, as a trans *man* I experience dysphoria sometimes, but I've never experienced dysphoria as a woman before, as I've never been a woman before(long story but the fact I am plural accounts for much of that). For additional context, I've recently discovered I'm bigender(trans man, and woman). In many ways this feels more closely aligned with trans women's experience than cis women's experience...so, my trans women fedi friends, what do *you* do when you feel dysphoric to feel better please? Tips, tricks etc greatly appreciated. (Femme language towards me in comments please, and my femme/girl name here online is Acey💖) #trans #transwomen #transgrnder #dysphoria #bigender #bisexual #plural #transgirlstuff

PLEASE BOOST FOR REACH. Bigender friends: I'm new to the discovery that I'm bigender(trans man, and woman), and I'm wondering how many of you who are also bigender use separate names for your different genders. Do you have different names, or do you use a gender neutral or non-binary name that works across all? #bigender #gender #lgbtqiaplus

No private room this time, but I am here, and so is Mini Baby Yoda😁

Dysphoria is kicking my femme ass today it seems. First time I've had dysphoria as my girl self. Oof.

A reminder💖

Three good things so far today: *Medical appointments done. All set for next week's surgery(and so far, feeling good about it and no apprehension) *Enjoying being a girl, hanging out with a system-mate and talking about femme clothing ideas *Feeling loved and supported in my bigender journey #ThreeGoodThings #3GoodThingsToday #3goodthings #thingstobethankfulfor #joy #happiness #contentment

RE: https://lgbtqia.space/@captainvellalives/117346405168921838 *bashes on sign* THIS!

Yep. #intersectionalfeminism #feminism #bigender #feminismforall #whimsy

It's been a day of mostly sleeping. Surgery is next week. Hanging in there. The finish line is in sight😁💖

Disability and chronic illness life be like: #disabled #chronicallyill

Still a lot of sleeping happening here, so not around much, but hanging in there until surgery day😝Love you all, fedi friends💖

RE: https://mastodon.social/@patioboater/117351790742460247 Look at Benny!🥹🥹🥹🥹

In case you need a reminder💖 #takeyourmeds #hydrate

A double rainbow from yesterday that I saw on my way in to hospital🌈🌈 #rainbow #happiness #hope #health

Errands run, dishes done, and bed made with fresh sheets so I can come home to a comfy bed after hospital. Having a little rest, and then we tackle some tidying. I have to fast from midnight, so I'm eating as much as I want until then, and have upped my water intake over the past day so that I give myself the best chance of staying hydrated, and not getting a migraine before surgery(or after, though I'm prone to them after anaesthetic). Resting in between tasks because pain is high, but feeling like I'm on track to being ready😁 #preparing #optimism #hope #focus #disability #chronicillness #chronicpain #hearthealth #kidneys #ptsd #fibromyalgia

PLEASE BOOST FOR ME! It's spring in my corner of the world, and warming up quickly in the rush to summer. I rent my home, and while I have a portable air conditioner in the bedroom, in the high Aussie heat of summer of over 40C/104F, it's still far too hot in the rest of the house, and makes my disabilities and chronic illness worse. I have no aircon or fans in the rest of my tiny apartment, and with my disabilities and chronic illness, I could really use a fan this year, so I'm not shut in the bedroom constantly. I really need a 40cm, metal blade fan for it to be effective along with my usual cooling towel, cooling mat etc. I live under the poverty line, so this is out of reach for me. If you could help make it possible for me to get the fan I need, and help make spring and summer more bearable with disability and chronic health issues, it would be much appreciated. My goal is $99.95(cheapest one I can find and also free delivery to my door as I can't get to a store and cart one home due to disabilities). Thank you so much💖 #boostforhelp #MutualAidRequest #mutualaidspace #disabled #chronicillness #neurodivergent #lgbtqia #plural #bisexual #bigender #pluralgang #mutualaid #MutualAidSavesLives #summer #grateful #hope #love #disabilityrights #gratitude #thankful #smalljoys @mutualaidspace@mutualaidspace.org @mutualaid@fedigroups.social #thankyou #poverty #povertykills #heatkills #heatstrokeprevention #chronicpain #HeatIntolerancehttps://ko-fi.com/aces_funhouse

URGENT. NEEDED TODAY. PLEASE BOOST FOR ME. Friends, all the recent medications before and after surgery now mean I have developed oral thrush. It's painful and irritating and I urgently need medication to relieve it. I'm under the poverty line, disabled and chronically unwell, and truly at wits end at this point as you can imagine, after everything else😅 If anyone could help me reach my urgent goal of $45 to cover this and some numbing throat spray and I can go and get relief today, I'd be very grateful. Thank you💖 #boost #boostforreach #help #disabled #chroniciallyill #MutualAidRequest #mutualaidspace #kindness #hope #gratitude #holdon #relief #care #kindnessmatters #loveinaction #disabledmutualaid #trans #transgender #bigrnder #neurodivergent #antipoverty #povertykills #mutualaidsaveslives #chronic #chronicallyill #mentalhealth #wellness #struggling #optimism #catlover #doglover #creative #femme #masc #human #tired #fatigued #MutualAidThread #MutualAidMondayhttps://ko-fi.com/aces_funhouse

RE: https://mastodon.redgarterclub.com/@AnthonyJK/117319722239338383 Help if you can, friends. Boost for reach too💖 #boost #mutualaid

A little brightness for you that I found the other day #flowers #naturelovers

One step at a time #stepbystep

RE: https://hachyderm.io/@selfcare/117344444716461864 Don't forget to hydrate, friends

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URGENT. PLEASE BOOST. Got a call from the hospital with some unexpected results- yet *another* infection. I'm so tired. No wonder I feel so unwell and have so much pain😅 Only a few days to go before my next surgery(let's hope this one is successful😅), but now I need antibiotics again. I'm under the poverty line, flat broke, disabled and chronically ill, and struggling with this infection. Could you help please? I can't do without the antibiotics. My goal is $50 to get the meds and some food for lunch and dinner today because I'm too unwell to cook. Thank you so, so much for helping❤️ #boost #mutualaid #chronic #urgent #fatigue #chronicallyill #pain @queer #trans #transrights #disabled #health #lgbtqia #lgbtqiaplus #meds #jope #grateful #MutualAidRequest #mutualaidspace #mutualaidboost #MutualAidSavesLives @mutualaid@ovo.st @mutualaid@fedigroups.social @mutualaid@kolektiva.social @shareish@mapstodon.space #help #hanginthere #catlover #vegetarian #catsofmastodon #dogsofmastodon #creative #witch #bisexual #optimistic #fibromyalgia #ptsdrecovery #ptsd #thankyoi #fedi #fediverse #thanks4posting #thankful #chinup #kidney #heart #fatigue #bigender #plural #thingstobethankfulforhttps://ko-fi.com/aces_funhouse

@kagan@wandering.shop thank you so much!🥰

@agatha@gts.snkrgirl.cfd good morning to you!🥰

@love@thistlenfern.org 🥰🥰🥰

@BlippyTheWonderSlug@ieji.de nice!

@Msloftis@mastodon.art beautiful work!

RE: https://bots.robots.rodeo/@scream/117318140744145702 Me, when people need things last minute but my disability needs three business days notice to even attempt it and my bank account says "who are you kidding?"

URGENT! BOOST PLEASE! Friends, I'm sorry, but I'm stuck! Specialists have decided they want last minute tests done(tomorrow 24th Sept😅) before next weeks surgery, and as I already live under the poverty line, I've allocated all my money towards getting to and from next week's surgery. Can you help me get to the appointment and back please? It's too far to walk there(plus too unwell to even attempt that). My goal is $50 to cover Uber there and back and any meds they prescribe. Thank you!♥️ #boost #urgent #help @mutualaid #chronicallyill #disabled @mutualaidspace #poverty #fediverse #fedifriends @mutualaid@fedigroups.social @mutualaid@ovo.st @disabledvoices@newsmast.community #disabledmutualaid #community #grateful #hopeful #love #kindness #care #chronicpain #FibroWarrior #kidneys #heart #ptad #cptsd #neurodivergent #plural #boostforhelp #MutualAidRequest #mutualaid #mutualaidboost #mutual #aid #communitymatters #trans #transgender #bigender #bisexual #mentalhealth #MutualAidThread #MutualAidSavesLives #mutualaidnethttps://ko-fi.com/aces_funhouse

RE: https://fed.amazonawaws.com/notes/argtbrw3a52dg63k Love you, fedi friends💖

RE: https://lgbtqia.space/@aceofcosmicspace/117412761302264821 Thank you! Only $75 to reach my goal and get me some meals for the next few days so I can continue my recovery. PLEASE BOOST FOR ME, so I can meet my urgent goal♥️

@neil@mastodon.neilzone.co.uk this is me! Much challenge😅. Happy Friday to you. I hope you're going okay🥰

@eri@plush.city such a lovely pic🥰🥹